Lessons from the World’s Greatest Boxer, Manny “PacMan” Pacquaio

I’m not sure if am alone but I must admit I never liked boxing myself and I seldom watch such fights. But that has all changed because of Manny “PacMan” Pacquaio who inspired me to look past the uncomfortable physical bruises and wounds and embrace the game as pure sports. Like me, this eight-division world champion is a Filipino – born out of poverty but because of dedication to the sports he love has rose to fame and success.

Manny PacMan Pacquiao Then and Now, World's Greatest Boxer
As a young construction worker, and now on the cover of TIME Magazine

During my last visit in the Philippines, my daughter Mish and I was invited to dinner by a young gentleman from Ireland.  He read my book “The Tale of Juliet” and I was happy to be his guest to a fine dinner at Chef Jessie’s restaurant in Rockwell.

This European man loves the Philippines - its culture, people, sights and sounds over the many countries he visited which is why he decided to stay longer. Asked what’s keeping him busy in the Philippines aside from his corporate work he excitedly told me he is into boxing. In fact he is the number one of “PacMan”.  Yes he hired his own personal boxing trainer, he buys all the promotional items related to “PacMan”, and is always at the front row whenever “PacMan” defends or snatches a title.

Manny Pacquiao's Fan

Paul Fox (second from left) calls himself Manny Pacquiao's #1 European fan with his Filipino boxing coach. My daughters (third and fourth from left) with their Pacquaio shirts during the fight.

Millions from all over the world tuned on their TV sets and computers to watch Manny Pacquaio’s fight last November. Here in Canada, excitement built up as the day ends. We received several invitations to watch and “potluck” party that evening. My two daughters, though born and raised in Canada shared their pride and support – wearing shirts and jacket imported from the Philippines. For extra loyalty, excitement and camaraderie they even watched the fight with their Filipino-Canadian friends.

Amazing how this small man from a remote place in the Philippines, who worked at the age of 14 and lived on streets when he runs out of money, became the only fighter to win ten world titles in eight different weight divisions and was named “Fighter of the Decade” for the 2000’s by the Boxing Writers Association of America (BWAA).

Rough is Only Mental

“Rough is only mental” is one of the promotional messages on his recent match with Mexican fighter Antonio Margarito. Yes it’s  mental on any game that we play in life. It’s only rough because we think it’s rough. For Manny, the fight can be an exciting, nerve wracking 12 rounds especially when you are up against a bigger guy. I wonder what’s going inside his head during the fight but I believe that one thing is true – it’s all about mind set. Change our thoughts and change our results.

His blows are powerful, his fists strong. And I believe that beyond his physical strength lies a greater power with Pacquiao:

1. Power of Intention – PacMan is focused on one goal – to do an excellent job . “Great things are done by people who think great thoughts and then go out into the world to make their dreams come true” – Plato

2. Power of Focus – Like a laser beam, PacMan only has his eye on the fight and channels all his energy to deliver one great fight. “Whatever you vividly imagine, ardently desire, sincerely believe, and enthusiastically act upon will inevitably come to pass.” - Paul J. Meyer

3. Power of Determination – Even as a young boy, PacMan is keen on winning despite poverty. He sets his eyes on his goals, and surrounds himself with the best team who can help him succeed. “If one advances confidently in the direction of his dreams, and endeavors to live the life whih he has imagined, he will met with a success unexpected in common hours.” Henry David Thoreau

4. Power of Believing – PacMan always believed in himself, in his coach Freddie Roach,  and always sees himself as one who has already won the game. “What is genuinely lacking in people is that they do not believe. You are able to obtain in life what you belief will enable you to obtain.” – Mohammed Ali

5. Power of Action – Though he encountered distractions along the way, Pacquiao poured in his time on months and weeks of training. He took action to be physically and mentally prepared – and you saw how many punches he made!

6. Power of Gratefulness – Always kneeling and praying before and after a fight, Pacquaio dedicates his game to God, shows that he is grateful for his family, his friends, supporters and his country. This expression of gratitude is a very powerful force and when we apply this into our lives we get more of what we already received. “When you feel grateful, you become great and eventually attract great things.” Plato

7. Power of Sharing – Even before taking his oath as a congressman and amassing wealth which can outlast his lifetime, Pacquiao has always shared his winnings to the poor – donating goods and food to his native town.  “We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give” - Winston Churchhill

Inspired by  my country’s hero, I have included in my “bucket list” to meet Pacquaio personally and interview him as an inspirational athlete, a great ambassador and as a public servant. We have few things in common – and one of them is our height. :-) We petite people have no fear of the giants. Hail to the world’s greatest boxer!

How to Achieve Breakthrough Results in Work and Life

America’s No. 1 Success Coach Jack Canfield, inspires Manila

His life and body of work testify a formula of success practiced over and over again from thoughts to the point of action. A global best-selling author, speaker, and famously called America’s Number One Success Coach, Jack Canfield inspired Manila and left lessons that impact people’s lives for the good.

“Be clear with your goals, take 100% responsibility of your life, and take action,” he stressed over and over again to over 200 participants at the ITD “Achieving Breakthrough Results in Work and Life” seminar in Manila, Philippines last September.

Jack Canfield inspiring Manila

As you may have read in my previous posts, Jack Canfield is one of my mentors. His lessons and inspiration are instrumental in writing my autobiographical book “The Tale of Juliet” and toured the globe sharing my story.

Jhet van Ruyven speaking at Jack Canfield Live! Event in Manila, Philippines
Myself speaking on stage with Jack Canfield

Since 2005, I have been one of his avid student and we were able to share a great friendship along with his wife Inga Canfield. In fact during the seminar, he graciously introduced me and allowed me to speak on stage in front of my fellow “kababayans” (countrymen). I am a believer of “Paying it forward” and I happily gifted a copy of “The Tale of Juliet” to all those who attended the event knowing that in many ways my story will inspire them to make their dreams come true.

Jhet van Ruyven signing The Tale of Juliet books
Signing a copy of my book for a participant

Jack shared practical and actionable strategies to achieve success in life and here are some worth writing down:

You attract what you focus on. Take control of your mind:

1.      Start the day by being grateful.
2.      Focus on joy and love so you can create harmony with other people.
3.      Keep yourself in positive vibration – think happy thoughts.
4.      Give up complaining.
5.      Practice this with consistency and discipline.

Achieve success by making the Law of Attraction work for you:

1.      Ask what you want.
2.      Decide what you want.
3.      Get a clear vision of your goals.
4.      Believe that you can achieve your goals.
5.      Take action.

Act as If. Create the image and feelings of success:

1.      Be careful with your words, use “I can and I will”.
2.      Visualize yourself achieving your goals.
3.      Take control of your physical state.
4.      Act as if you are successful. Look and feel good inside out.
5.      Network with people: know those who can play in your team.

Jack ended the day by stressing on the importance of seeing beyond the  reality of our life – our present situation, what we have, our limitations. “Look past that perimeter and go farther. Use your vision
to produce what you want. Focus on what you would like to achieve. Believe that you can. Take action and make it happen,” he said.

Indeed, the last line of what he said is the tune that I sing in my life, and it works every time.
Make it work for you too.

From Me To You: What Can Be the Next Step to Continue Your Journey in Achieving Success?

1) I highly recommend you to get a copy of Jack’s best selling book – The Success Principles

2) Check out Jack’s 7- day Breakthrough to Success Seminar

3) Take daily action and let me know how I can help you. Email me at jhet@thetaleofjuliet.com

Prevail in Life with Passion!

“Failure is only postponed success as long as courage coaches ambition. The habit of persistence is the habit of victory.” – Herbert Kaufman

Do you feel discouraged when you fail at your first and second attempt?

I understand that feeling. Life simply presents us with challenges that may either make or break us, and lose our passion. Still, the choice whether to push further or throw in the towel is ours.

At a young age, I sold mangoes barefooted at the beach of a rural province in the Philippines. Not a pretty way to start my dreams, right? If not for the kindness of a priest, I couldn’t have studied in a school and received a degree. You can know more about my story in www.taleofjuliet.com and in my book The Tale of Juliet.

For a 5-foot petite lady from a less known Asian country, I had to overcome my limitations and harp on my abilities and talents, and what I can deliver.

My passion and persistence were tried and tested through all the difficulties I encountered in life. And if you ask me if ever I will choose to live a different life, I will decide not to. I am thankful for the trials – because it has and continues to serve like a refining fire to my character and values. Remember that:

  • Trials test and strengthens our character.
  • Trials give us the opportunity to learn.
  • Trials push us out of our comfort zones.
  • Trials make our life’s testimony more meaningful and significant.

Let you passion endure you through life’s trials.

Stay focused on your goal and purpose with a knowing that going through trials only makes you stronger and builds your character to win in life.

When the going gets tough, you just have to get going.

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