How to Play the Game of Life, and Live and Ultimate Life!

Living on auto-pilot? It is time to play the Ultimate Game of Life!

While attending Jack Canfield’s Breakthrough to Success Seminar 2010, I heard that sought-after business coach Jim Bunch would be speaking about transformational environment – how to create an ultimate life through our physical surroundings. I spotted him on a corner talking to some of the seminar staff. I knew this was one of those opportunities to apply my mentor’s Jack Canfield’s Success Principle which is “Ask, ask, ask.”

With confidence, I introduced myself and asked If I can interview him to share his wisdom. He instantly agreed and we did an impromptu interview during one of the breaks. He talked about creating our environment by design instead of by default. Here’s what he had to say:

According to him there are 9 different environments that we shoud understand and be consciously aware of 24/7. These are:

The Nine Environments of You by Jim Bunch
The Nine Environments of You

Apart from being aware, Jim shared that it is important for us to assess and craft these environments to our advantage. To do this:

  1. Listen and be aware to each of the nine environments. Do they inspire or expire you?
  2. Assess your current ratings in each – is it good or can it still be improved?
  3. Establish or write down your “desired” action or changes you want to make.
  4. Identify the negative aspects of the environments that you want to delete.
  5. Identify what positive things or changes you want to add and act on them.

If we become more conscious of our environments, do the prescribed strategies above, and stick to our action plan, we can live an extraordinary and ultimate life.

Jim and I agreed on the fact that a lot of people go to seminars, get pumped up to transform, but go back to their same old life. In order to avoid self-help learnings from becoming shelf-help, Jim said that we need to consistently focus and act on three things, everyday:

  • Towards happiness
  • Towards health
  • Towards wealth

Is it really possible for someone to be happy, healthy, wise? The big answer is  YES! If you put happiness first, your health, and wealth will follow. They key is the awareness and recognition of what makes you happy, what makes you healthy, and wealth creation will follow as a result.

“Live life by design and not by default. Craft your environment because the right environments pull you into a bigger game or a bigger you,” Jim said.

Jhet van Ruyven with Jim Bunch and Inga Canfield
Me with Jim Bunch and Inga Canfield, wife of Jack Canfield

For more information please check Jim’s site http://www.ultimategameoflife.com Whew! I am glad I trusted my intuition. He is a man with a big heart, and I love his life philosophy!

Soccer in Brazil – Playing it with Rockhard Passion

It was the heat of the FIFA World Cup and I found myself in Brazil, the country whose name is almost synonymous to soccer.

At the opening day of the 2010 World Cup, I personally witnessed how Brazilians celebrated their soccer team like extreme fanatics – the whole country in high spirits, people cheering and dancing, and drum bands performing in streets adorned with Brazilian flags and Brazilian soccer team mementoes.

Soccer billboards all hail the country’s soccer team.

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Where to See and Dance Tango in Argentina?

From Jhet’s South American Series

Only a few hours left before my departure, I had one thing on my mind – that is not to miss the tango show in Argentina. Tango is said to have originated from Argentine slaves as early as the 1800s. This explains why tango shows are held in almost every part of the country. I’ve asked around which place to go until my intuition told me to finally select one.

Superb performances in El Viejo Almacen

The hotel recommended El Viejo Almacen in San Telmo – one of the oldest and preserved barrios in Argentina, famous for its rustic setting. The sound of it being antique made me decide. After a quick phone call and an impromptu reservation, I was informed to prepare in 30 minutes! I got excited to wear something girly on my last night in Buenos Aires, after days of touring in rubbershoes and flipflops.

At El Viejo Almacen, superb performances of tango followed one after another, alternating with singing, acting, and group tango. It was just so romantic! Tango is like love made vertically – that is how I would describe it! Dancers were superb, the band excellent, and the dinner was gastronomically fantastic!

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